Courtesy - To get respect, give respect.
Hello, young Jiu-Jitsu warriors!
Welcome to another exciting lesson in our Youth Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu Online Course. Today, we’re going to talk about something that makes you a great person, both in Jiu-Jitsu and in life: **Courtesy**! Have you ever heard the saying, "To get respect, give respect"? In this class, we’re going to learn what courtesy means, why it’s so important, and how it helps you build strong relationships and a great character. Let’s get started and become courtesy champs!
Part 1: What Does Courtesy Mean?
Let’s start with what courtesy is. Courtesy means being polite, kind, and respectful to others, even when you don’t have to be. It’s about treating people the way you want to be treated! When we say "To get respect, give respect," we mean that if you want people to treat you well, you need to show them respect first. It’s like a two-way street—when you’re courteous, others are more likely to be courteous back to you!
Imagine you’re in Jiu-Jitsu class, and you’re rolling with a partner. Courtesy means bowing to them before you start, saying "good job" after a match, and helping them if they need it. It’s about showing respect, even if you’re competing against each other. Courtesy makes everyone feel good and builds a strong team!
Part 2: Why Courtesy Matters in Jiu-Jitsu
Here’s why being courteous is so important when you’re training Jiu-Jitsu:
1. **Builds a Positive Team**: Jiu-Jitsu is a team sport, and courtesy makes the whole class better. When you’re polite and respectful to your teammates, they feel happy and safe, and everyone has more fun.
2. **Shows Respect to Instructors**: Your instructors work hard to teach you. Being courteous means listening when they talk, saying "thank you," and following their rules. This shows you respect their time and effort.
3. **Makes You a Leader**: When you’re courteous, others look up to you. Being kind and respectful sets a great example for your teammates and shows you’re a leader, not just a follower.
4. **Helps You Learn**: Courtesy means being open to learning from everyone—your instructors, teammates, and even your opponents. When you respect others, you’re ready to grow and get better at Jiu-Jitsu.
Part 3: Courtesy in Everyday Life
Courtesy isn’t just for Jiu-Jitsu—it’s a superpower you can use everywhere! Here are some examples:
- **At School**: Being courteous means saying "please" and "thank you" to your teachers, listening when they talk, and helping your classmates. It makes school a nicer place for everyone!
- **At Home**: Show courtesy by saying "good morning" to your family, helping with chores without being asked, and listening when your parents talk. It shows you care about them!
- **With Friends**: If your friend is having a tough day, being courteous means listening to them and saying kind words. It builds strong friendships and shows you’re a good friend.
When you say "To get respect, give respect," you’re reminding yourself that being courteous is the key to earning respect from others, no matter where you are.
Part 4: Real-Life Examples
Let’s look at some examples of people who used courtesy to succeed:
- **The Jiu-Jitsu Friend**: Imagine a kid named Lily who always showed courtesy in class. She bowed to her partners, said "good job" after every roll, and helped new students learn. Everyone liked training with Lily, and she became a leader in her class because of her respect!
- **The Famous Leader**: Martin Luther King Jr. was a famous leader who believed in treating everyone with respect, even when they didn’t agree with him. His courtesy and kindness helped him change the world and earn respect from millions of people!
- **You!**: Think about a time when you were courteous. Maybe you said "thank you" to someone who helped you, or you shared something with a friend. How did it feel to be kind? Every time you show courtesy, you’re building your character and making the world better!
Part 5: How to Practice Courtesy
Here are some tips to help you practice courtesy every day, especially in Jiu-Jitsu:
1. **Say "To get respect, give respect"**: When you’re not sure how to act, say this out loud or in your head. It reminds you to be kind and respectful to others.
2. **Use Polite Words**: Say "please," "thank you," and "you’re welcome" every chance you get. These little words show big courtesy!
3. **Listen Well**: When someone is talking—your instructor, parents, or friends—listen carefully and don’t interrupt. It shows you respect what they have to say.
4. **Help Others**: Be a helper! Offer to help a teammate with a move, hold the door for someone, or share something with a friend. Helping shows courtesy.
5. **Smile and Be Kind**: Even when you’re having a bad day, try to smile and be kind. It makes others feel good and shows you’re courteous, no matter what.
Conclusion: Be a Courtesy Champion!
So, young Jiu-Jitsu warriors, remember the saying: "To get respect, give respect!" In Jiu-Jitsu and in life, courtesy is what helps you build strong relationships, earn respect, and grow into a great person. It’s about being polite, kind, and respectful, even when it’s hard. When you practice courtesy, you build a strong character that will help you succeed everywhere you go. Keep being courteous, and you’ll become a true champion!
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